Fitting Clothes and Mesh Smoothing

I am trying to understand the effects of the various mesh smoothing controls.
Is there a crib sheet on what each control does or do I have to go through hundreds of iterations myself?
How does weight, secondary weight, lock distance, length influence & collisions smoothing interval affect the fit?
I understand what collision and smoothing iterations are, but what numbers do I need to achieve various effects?
Obviously loose trousers, tight trousers and tights fit differently, how do I achieve each effect?
Any help in this would be much appreciated.:-)